Thank you for the great advice Mu.
My advice to you is be punctual dear. Keeping me waiting for 45 minutes for coffee was, well ...disappointing. Surely you didn't expect me to be all butterflies and rainbows after waiting so long
Meanwhile, do give my best to your fiancee she was positively lovely. And after meeting both of you I'd like to recommend that you look into Lord Vhamp's house also based in NJ, House LiDeIM. I think you will find it a good match.
Best of luck.